I was browsing through a Christian bookstore today, and just so happened to pick up a lesson planner that had some ideas about teaching lessons. I don’t remember the title exactly, but it was about the hard teachings of Jesus. I read the first lesson, which covered the rich young ruler, and it gave me a new perspective on the story.
The ruler, even though he had kept all of the commandments, Jesus told him that he had to sell all he had to be able to inherit the kingdom of God. The ruler left, not feeling so good about himself. I always thought the point was that we have to share what we’ve been given, to be generous to others.
The way the author explains it though, he says that the money, and the garments that made him appear as a ruler, defined him in society. It was his money that he had put his hope in in life, and the only way for him to truly be a Christian, he needed to shed off that old societal definition of being rich, young, and a ruler, and to become fully devoted to God.
It’s the same with us. We are defined by our popularity, by the crowd we fit in, and even by our wealth. I see in myself that I often define myself by the way other people see me. Whether I feel like a “fun” person at the time, or slightly boring, often my self-worth is measured by what society tells me. I’ve recently had problems with vehicles, and two incidents happened with my car. When something of monetary value of mine is threatened, I start to worry, and it gives me huge butterflies so much so that I can’t sleep. Jesus tells us not to worry about food or clothing, and yet I can’t even imagine life without a car. I think this was the rich young rulers problem. He was defined by his wealth, and so if he lost it, he would be a nobody.
When we are defined so much by something in this world, we lose our definition as Christians. We put our hope in our jobs, instead of our walk with God. Or maybe our hope is in the car we drive, or the crowd we are with, or even our family. All these things are blessings to have, but they can easily come between us and God.
What’s it going to take for us to be God’s child, to see ourselves by what God sees, and not by what’s on the outside. We need to leave the popular crowd, and reach out to those who are a little lower than ourselves. We have to get out of our mind off of the cars we can’t afford, the clothes that make us look like snobs, and the newest Gadget that might give us a couple of hours of entertainment.
So what is Jesus saying to us. “Leave your best friends, and follow me” (2 Cor 6:14). “Don’t work so many hours at your job; teach your kids about my love.” Jesus tells us to put our teasure in heaven, instead of in things that are just temporary on the earth. What are you defined by?